What if your upline gives up?

What if your upline gives up?

Nosey is one of the barn cats who loves to show up when I do videos out in the field LOL. Today he decided that he wanted to hang out and join in on a selfie.

There was a day when I found out today that the person who got my online business going, and introduced me into a world I never knew existed was moving onto something else.

She was the one who introduced me to attraction marketing. I did three trainings with her before it finally made sense. Then I was hooked!

That day though, I found out that she had moved on.

Has this happened to you? Someone introduced you into an opportunity, and then they gave up or moved onto something else. This was actually not the first time it has happened to me. Actually it’s happened twice before. The first two times I was so new at trying to build a business online…so then I gave up on myself and moved onto something else.

For me, network marketing is about the community. I want to meet new people and make new friends.

Yes, the money is nice… but for me the connections mean more. The friendships mean more.

I’m not as new as I once was. Though it makes me sad, I know that she must make the decision that is right for her.

I know that this has happened to other people besides me. Everyone seems to handle it differently.

I’ve actually been talking with another woman about her own struggles with her upline. She feels she doesn’t get the support she needs. She feels that her upline is unavailable to help her when she needs it. It’s a huge source of frustration for her. It’s even keeping her from building a successful business.

One of the best things I ever learned, was that if someone isn’t helping you…then you need to find someone or something that will.

There are so many resources out there to help you. There are many other leaders out there that are willing to help you.

Remember this: You have not failed until you completely given up!

Switching to something new, testing out new systems, and trying new strategies all have the potential to lead you where you need to go. Sitting there won’t help you move forward. You have to take some sort of action. You have to try something! If you don’t know what to try, find someone who is achieving what you want and ask them for help!

The longer you sit in your frustration, the longer you will hold yourself back. You can only move forward when you start actually taking action.

You can totally do this anyway that you want to. If someone else moves on, wish them well. Hopefully they will find what they are looking for. But DON’T lose your belief. DON’T lose belief in yourself.

If you are someone that is looking for some help. Every Wednesday I host a free coaching session. You can register for it here.

Remember the reason you started building your home business. Don’t lose sight of what you want.

Until next time!


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